Have you ever thought, “I should be better at this by now”? In this powerful episode, Lisa introduces the transformative concept of The Gap and The Gain, a mindset shift that can completely change how you see yourself — and your child. Most parents measure themselves against an impossible ideal and constantly feel behind. That’s...Read More

Last week, Lisa introduced co-regulation. This week, she goes deeper. In this episode, Lisa explains the neuroscience behind why co-regulation works and what is actually happening inside your kid’s nervous system when you stay calm during their meltdown. From “borrowed calm” to repair to attunement, you’ll learn how your regulated presence literally builds your kid’s...Read More

Have you ever been told that your child should be able to calm themselves down by now? In this episode of Real World Peaceful Parenting, Lisa Smith breaks down why that belief is not only unhelpful, but completely opposite of how the human brain develops. Lisa explains the science of co-regulation, why kids cannot learn...Read More

If you feel exhausted from constant power struggles and unsure whether you’re being too strict or too permissive, this episode is for you. Lisa shares a simple, practical framework to help you decide which battles are worth fighting and which ones you can let go without guilt. You’ll learn how to stop wasting energy on...Read More

If you feel stuck in constant negotiations, repeated asking, or daily power struggles, this episode is for you. Lisa breaks down the most common boundary mistake parents make without realizing it and explains why vague, flexible, or mood-based limits actually create more testing and meltdowns. You’ll learn why kids need clarity to feel safe and...Read More