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The exact methods and step-by-step strategies Lisa used to transform from an angry, controlling mom into a calm, confident, and connected leader in her home.

Yelling Works. And That’s the Problem

Ep #303: Yelling Works. And That’s the Problem

You’ve asked nicely. You’ve repeated yourself three times. You’ve tried staying calm. And then you finally yell… and suddenly your kid listens. So yelling works, right? Well, not so fast. In this episode of Real World Peaceful Parenting, I’m challenging one of the biggest beliefs that keeps parents stuck in the yelling cycle: that our...
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You Want to Teach Your Kid a Lesson. But What Are They Actually Learning?

Ep #302: You Want to Teach Your Kid a Lesson. But What Are They Actually Learning?

Your kid knows the rules. You’ve explained them approximately 4,000 times. So when they break them AGAIN, your first thought might be, What consequence will finally get through to this kid? But what if that’s the wrong question? In this episode of Real World Peaceful Parenting, I’m breaking down the difference between discipline and punishment—and...
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When Your Kid Messes Up, Are You the Person They Will Call?

Ep #301: When Your Kid Messes Up, Are You the Person They Will Call?

What if the most important thing you’re building as a parent isn’t a kid who always listens, follows the rules, or makes the right choices—but a relationship where your kid knows they can come to you when life gets hard? In this episode of Real World Peaceful Parenting, I’m sharing what I’ve learned about connection...
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Kids Are People Too: The Story Behind The Peaceful Parent

Ep #300: Kids Are People Too: The Story Behind The Peaceful Parent

We’re celebrating 300 episodes of Real World Peaceful Parenting with a very special conversation! This week, I’m handing the microphone to my dear friend of 30 years, Melissa Botello, for a candid, behind-the-scenes interview about my life before peaceful parenting, my journey from corporate executive to parent coach, and the experiences that shaped my mission....
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When Your Kid Has Big Feelings—But You Still Have to Go

Ep #299: When Your Kid Has Big Feelings—But You Still Have to Go

What do you do when your kid is nervous, disappointed, angry, or melting down…and you genuinely have to leave right now? In this episode, I’m clearing up one of the biggest misconceptions about peaceful parenting: honoring your kid’s feelings does not mean life has to stop until those feelings disappear. Through a real coaching story...
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You Know What to Do—So Why Can’t You Do It?

Ep #298: You Know What to Do—So Why Can’t You Do It?

You’ve read the books. You’ve listened to the podcasts. You know you’re supposed to regulate, connect before you correct, and respond instead of react. Then it’s 7:42 on Tuesday morning, your kid STILL doesn’t have their shoes on, and every peaceful parenting tool you’ve ever learned has apparently packed a suitcase and left town. In...
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Why Your Kid Falls Apart After School

Ep #297: Why Your Kid Falls Apart After School

Your kid holds it together all day at school…and then completely loses it the second they get in the car. In this episode of Real World Peaceful Parenting, I’m breaking down what’s really happening during those after-school meltdowns. You’ll learn about the “invisible emotional backpack” your kid carries all day, why their thinking brain may...
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Why “Just Put Your Phone Down” Doesn’t Work—and What Will

Ep #296: Why “Just Put Your Phone Down” Doesn’t Work—and What Will

Your kid can’t put their phone down…and if we’re being honest, sometimes neither can we. In this episode of Real World Peaceful Parenting, Lisa takes a fresh look at kids, smartphones, and screen-time limits. Instead of blaming kids for lacking willpower—or declaring technology the enemy—Lisa explains why developing brains need parents to create thoughtful “governors”...
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Stop Labeling, Start Investigating: How to Really See Your Kid

Ep #295: Stop Labeling, Start Investigating: How to Really See Your Kid

“He’s lazy.” “She’s dramatic.” “He’s irresponsible.” “She’s just difficult.” Sometimes there is a real pattern underneath those thoughts—but there’s a huge difference between noticing something your kid struggles with and deciding that struggle is who they are. In this episode of Real World Peaceful Parenting, I’m digging into the labels we consciously and unconsciously put...
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What Are You Making It Mean? How Your Thoughts Shape Your Parenting

Ep #294: What Are You Making It Mean? How Your Thoughts Shape Your Parenting

Your kid rolls their eyes, forgets their backpack, ignores your reminder, or responds with a teenage “fine”—and suddenly your brain has written an entire screenplay about what it means. They’re lazy. They don’t respect me. They’ll never be responsible. I’m losing connection. But what actually happened…and what are you making it mean? In this episode...
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Running on Empty? The Parenting Cost of Not Resting

Ep #293: Running on Empty? The Parenting Cost of Not Resting

Back-to-school season brings new schedules, new activities, new forms, and approximately 4,732 new things for parents to remember. But before you ask whether your kid is ready, Lisa wants you to ask a different question: Is your tank full enough for what’s coming? In this episode, Lisa challenges the belief that rest has to be...
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Open the Box: How Play Creates Connection with Hootenanny Games' Whitney Kimerling

Ep #292: Open the Box: How Play Creates Connection with Hootenanny Games’ Whitney Kimerling

What if one of the most powerful parenting tools wasn’t another script, consequence, or strategy… but a simple board game? In this episode of Real World Peaceful Parenting, Lisa sits down with Whitney Kimerling, founder of Hootenanny Games, to explore how something as simple as putting a game on the table can strengthen family relationships,...
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